Embodied Wisdom – Erectile Dysfunction as an Inner Truth

Presenting ConcernMale client, 32 years old, professional, successful and in a long-term relationship.  He presented with difficulty achieving and maintaining erections with his partner for over a year. He had no prior medical issues and confirmed that he experienced spontaneous morning erections and occasional erections when alone. He expressed shame, confusion, and fear that something was…

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More Than Hormones: How Therapy Helps Navigate Perimenopause

Perimenopause — the transitional phase leading up to menopause — can feel like a storm that arrives without warning. For some women, it begins in their late 30s or early 40s and lasts anywhere from a few months to several years. Hot flashes, sleep disturbances, and unpredictable cycles are well-known hallmarks, but what often catches women off guard are the…

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Pleasure is Not a 4-Letter Word

Our culture is currently living in a pleasure drought. Let’s break free. By now, we all know we live in a sex-negative society. However, do we realize that we also live in a pleasure-negative world? Pleasure has become overly connected with sex, making it somehow just as taboo a topic. This connection is a false…

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Ways to (Re)Connect Spiritually

I’ve been struggling with frozen shoulder (adhesive capsulitis) for nearly a year now, but the most painful time has been over the past 6 months. I haven’t been able to stick to my typical morning routine — cardio exercise and/or strength training; stretching or yoga; and walks — due to severe, chronic pain and limited…

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Sex and Dating After Weight Loss

In the United States, there were an estimated 252,000 weight loss surgeries performed in 2018, according to the American Society for Metabolic and Bariatric Surgeries. Significant weight loss either by surgical means or other methods brings a lot of changes for people and their partners when it comes to sex, intimacy, body image, and dating. Yet,…

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What Men Need to Know About Painful Sex

Yes, men experience painful sex too. It’s just that no one talks about it. There are several types of pain men experience during intercourse and other sexual activities. According to Wayne JG Hellstrom, MD and Kenneth DeLay, MD “The term “dyspareunia” refers to pain associated with sexual intercourse, which can affect men as well as women and…

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Women & Painful Sex

If you are experiencing pain when having or attempting to have intercourse, you are certainly not alone. According to an article published in Harvard Health, “Millions of women experience pain before, during or after sexual intercourse. Many women suffer in silence and don’t seek the help they need, or they have trouble finding a clinician who…

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Negotiating Sex: Let’s talk…

Sex is a taboo subject.  I know, believe me. We have been taught by parents, teachers, society, and other authorities that it’s so wrong, bad, dirty, disgusting and that it ought not be talked about aloud. Oh…and by the way, you should also be amazing at it, men know exactly what women want without any…

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