Asking for Help Can Make Your Sex Life Better

For relationships to become true partnerships, we all need to learn how to let our partner(s) know what we’re thinking…they can’t read our minds.

We need to be more open and curious. Ask more questions. Ask for help.

This concept isn’t gendered. I work with many men, women, non-binary and transgender folks and they all have this one thing in common. They refuse to ask their partner(s) for anything. We are trying to read our partner instead of asking simple questions because assuming seems easier at the time and doesn’t require any vulnerability.

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